Readings for May 30, 2015: 2 Samuel 14-17; Psalm 74.
In the course of our lives we’ve all experienced broken relationships. Broken relationships between parent/child, husband/wife, brother/sister, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. We’ve all suffered the pain of a bruised, bent, even broken relationships.
David suffered a ton of it in his own family, especially with his children. At this time in David’s rule Absalom stood unofficially banished from the king because he had murdered Amnon. David longed for Absalom to come home, but did nothing to bring him home. It took the wise intervention of his commander in chief to bring his son home. A wise woman told him: “But this is not what God desires; rather, he devises ways so that a banished person does not remain banished from him.” What she was telling David is this: If God doesn’t want the banished to stay banished, why would we let the banished stay banished? Why wouldn’t we want to do whatever it took to bring the exile home?
Good question. We were banished from God’s face, exiled from eternity, and doomed to eternal death. But God devised a way, his own arm worked salvation for him, to bring the exile home, to restore the banished, and rescue those (us) doomed to death. He reconciled us to himself by the death of his Son Jesus. He restored us back to the standing of sons and daughters of God.
If this is what God has done, why would we not desire the same?
Take a moment and look the broken relationships in your life. Is it your marriage? Your siblings? Your children? Your parents? Your friends? Your boyfriend/girlfriend?
What plan can you lovingly devise to restore the relationship with them? This is what God has done for you. He devised a plan to restore you and to bring the banished home. Let’s do the same in all our other relationships. As much as it depends on you, do whatever it takes to bring the exile home and bring the banished back.
Lord God, you desires broken and bent relationships healed. You did this between you and me when you sent your Son, Jesus, to reconcile me with you. You truly restored me with yourself. You truly brought me back at great cost to yourself. And so I get to come into your presence. You desire the same reconciliation in all my other relationships. Make me just like you in these relationships. Make me just as zealous and eager to restore those relationships in my life no matter what the cost to me. Amen.